The Bachelorette Season 15, Episode 10 Recap: A Note on Tyler, Luke, and Sex in the Fantasy Suites

Sadly, that’s where the positive moments of the episode end because the final two dates are with Jed and Luke. Jed goes first, but he and Hannah spend most of their time talking about Luke. If you’re this close to finding your future husband, he asks, why keep someone you’re uncertain about around? She stumbles over her answer before finally telling Jed that she and Luke have a connection; she knows it’s hard to understand, but he’ll have to respect it. “You’ve got to let me figure it out,” she says.

Over dinner, she thanks him for bringing up the Luke stuff. Jed admits it’s hard for him to understand how she can be falling in love with him but still holding onto someone who’s been toxic to her and everyone else. It makes him wonder if there are other bad situations she won’t let go of out in the real world. “I’m just really freaking sure about you, and I don’t want to be unsure,” he says. She gets so frustrated at that she leaves the table.

When they both sit back at the table, Jed insists that he trusts her decisions and has her back no matter what. Hannah says his conversation scared her, but ultimately it shows her that he cares. They go to the fantasy suite.

The next day, Hannah and Luke take a helicopter to Santorini. It’s fairly uneventful, though I did a spit take when Luke, a man who told Hannah that he was falling in love with her on their second date, says he doesn’t take “dropping the L word” lightly.

Their dinner that night starts off well enough, until Luke opens his mouth. “I want to make sure that from now on things are known how they’re supposed to be,” he says. “So let’s talk about sex.” Sex is a beautiful thing only when it’s in the “guidelines of a marriage,” he says. He concedes that he’s been abstaining from sex for almost four years—and he knows she’s not a virgin either—but he wants to know that she won’t be having sex with the other guys in the fantasy suites. He adds he’d “100%” go home if she did.

While I screamed at my television and threw my phone across the couch in horror, Hannah keeps her cool. “Sex is a very big deal to me,” she replies. That said, she doesn’t agree with him. “The way that you just said that…it’s like, why do you have the right to do that because you’re not my husband,” she explains. She feels he’s judging her when he doesn’t have the right too. “Pride is a sin too, and I feel like this is a pride thing.”

Here’s the Full Transcript of Hannah and Luke’s Sex Talk on The Bachelorette

Warning: Spoilers ahead.

Tonight’s episode of The Bachelorette was action-packed, to say the least. We finally learned who Hannah slept with in the windmill (Pilot Peter), Tyler Cameron proved himself to be the perfect man, and, oh yeah, Hannah Brown and Luke Parker had a heated debate about religion and sex that led to their breakup. Yes, my friends, Hannah finally spoke the words we’ve been waiting for all season: “I have had sex, and Jesus still loves me.”

How she got there isn’t surprising if you’ve been keeping up with The Bachelorette. Luke sat Hannah down and said he’d remove himself from their relationship if he found out she’d slept with any of the other contestants. This, naturally, did not sit well with Hannah—and their proceeding conversation was explosive. But I’ll let them do the talking. Here is the transcript, in full:

Luke: Let’s talk about sex.

Hannah: Okay.

Luke: You know sex is an incredible thing. And it’s a beautiful thing. Well, you know, only when it’s within the guidelines of marriage. This whole process, I’ve been studying Hebrews, and it talks about how marriage should be honored by everybody and how the marriage bed should be kept pure. I know you’re not a virgin. We’ve had the talk. You know I’m not. I’ve been abstaining myself from sex for, like, three-and-a-half to four years now. And I know that regardless of what I’ve done in the past, I am saving myself for marriage. And I am very confident that we’re on the same page with our morals. And I just want to hear it from your mouth. There’s a lot of people that say they believe in something but yet they live or do things completely differently. Thinking about Fantasy Suites, I’ve heard people proclaim their faith but yet they’ve said things like, “I’m excited for Fantasy Suites. I want to explore this relationship on a sexually intimate level, and that’s what I’m looking forward to.” And to me, that’s like, “Whoa, what? Excuse me? There’s something I’m missing here.” I don’t believe that’s something you should be doing. I just want to make sure you’re not going to be sexually intimate with the other relationships here.

Hannah: Okay.

Luke: I totally have all the trust in the world for you, but at the same time I just want to make sure we’re on the same page. If you told me you’re having sex or you had sex with one or multiple of these guys, I’d be wanting to go home, 100% But if that’s something you’re not going through, then I’m just ‘gonna continue to grow the relationship and move on.

Hannah: Um…Sex is a very big deal to me. And I’ve said I’ve had sex with two people in my life and it was long relationships I thought were ‘gonna be my husband. But some of the things you said, I don’t agree with at all. And, honestly, I’m kind of mad because the way you just said that is…Why do you have the right to do that? Because you’re not my husband. And you’re not—

Luke: Can I cut you off for a second?

Hannah: No.

Luke: Okay.

Hannah: It’s just that you’re questioning me, that you’re judging me and feel like you have the right to when you don’t at this point. I get when you care for somebody that you don’t want to think about someone being intimate with another person, but guess what? Sex might be a sin out of marriage but pride is a sin too. And I feel like this is, like, a pride thing.

Of Course Tyler Had the Perfect Reaction to the Fantasy Suite on *The Bachelorette*

The Bachelorette‘s Fantasy Suite episode is one of the most-anticipated of the season, and Hannah Brown‘s did not disappoint. From the teasers we already knew there was drama with Luke P.⁠—surprise, surprise⁠—but little did we know the other highlights that would come from it. For one, we now know that Peter the Pilot is who Brown slept with in that windmill⁠—but more importantly, we have more confirmation that Tyler C. is the world’s most perfect man.

Because she felt their physical connection was more developed than their emotional one, Brown told Tyler C. she did not want to have sex in the Fantasy Suite. His response to this was perfect and, truthfully, how all men should react all the time. No exceptions!

“The Fantasy Suite has the connotation of sex. For me, it’s way more than that. I just want to be with you and have that time with you,” he said. “You have to really love and really respect and honor each other’s boundaries.”

And that’s exactly what he did. Brown woke up the next morning from their Fantasy Suite and said, “[Tyler] was the most respectful man that’s ever been with me. Ever.”

Twitter users are very excited about how Brown and Tyler’s night went down. Like I said, though, this type of behavior shouldn’t be an anomaly: It should be the norm. But even still, it’s great to see on TV.

“I see myself at the end with Hannah B., that’s for sure,” Tyler told Glamour in an interview. “She’s a real-ass woman. She’s her. She doesn’t care. She’s unapologetically Hannah B.—and I love that. I adore that.”

Check out just a few reactions to Tyler and Brown’s Fantasy Suite for yourself, below:

The Bachelorette airs Mondays at 8 P.M. ET on ABC. Let’s see what happens next!

New York Is the Latest State to Ban Discrimination Against Natural Hair

New York is officially the second state to make it illegal for employers to discriminate against employees because of the way they wear their hair.

Last week, Governor Andrew Cuomo passed Assembly Bill 07797, legislation that would “prohibit race discrimination based on natural hair or hairstyles.” This law will also impact previous efforts to curb discrimination in the state. For example, it will solidify recently introduced human rights guidelines, which called for the protection of citizens’ right to wear natural hair, treated or untreated, in hairstyles such as locs, cornrows, twists, braids, or Bantu knots. The bill is also an amendment to New York state’s Human Rights Law and Dignity for All Students Act, which outlines racial discrimination as “traits historically associated with race, including but not limited to hair texture and protective hairstyles.”

The signing of this law comes on the heels of California’s recently enacted CROWN Act, which made the state the first in the country to ban employers from discriminating against people with natural hair. “By introducing the bill, I wanted to use it as an opportunity to educate my colleagues about the unique experience and opportunities of having black hair. I didn’t want them to see it as a negative,” Los Angeles Democratic senator Holly Mitchell told Glamour. “Because of my natural hair texture, I have the unique opportunity to wear these amazing natural hairstyles.”

Through the bill, Mitchell also aimed to highlight that locs are no less “professional” than straightened hair or a blowout. “Our knowledge and ideas of what’s ‘appropriate,’ what’s ‘professional,’ what’s ‘beautiful,’ are based on a very Eurocentric standard,” she said. “This bill and my mere presence in presenting the bill was going to challenge that.”

New York becoming the second state to pass this type of anti-discrimination law sends a powerful message to women who have faced issues in the workplace because of how they wear their hair. A recent study from Dove found that black women are 50% more likely to be sent home, or to know a black woman who has been sent home from work because of her hair. Which doesn’t even account for the countless microagressions women face when wearing their hair natural in school or at work.

While it’s too soon to tell how cases of discrimination will be handled under these new laws, it’s a vital step in the right direction for workplace inclusion.

Kim Cattrall on Why She’ll ‘Never’ Be in Another Sex and the City Movie

If you’re one of those Sex and the City stans still holding out hope for a SATC 3 with the full cast…sorry, friend. Kim Cattrall has made it clear that she will never, ever participate in Sex and the City 3. Of course, Cattrall—who brought PR exec by day, heartbreaker by night Samantha Jones to life—has long been outspoken about not wanting to return to the beloved franchise, but a recent interview with The Daily Mail is the most definitive she’s been yet.

When asked if she would appear in another SATC film, she told the publication, “Never. It’s a no from me.”

Kristin Davis, Sarah Jessica Parker, Cynthia Nixon, and Kim Cattrall on the set of Sex In The City: The Movie.James Devaney/WireImage

She then added, “You learn lessons in life, and my lesson is to do work with good people and try and make it fun.” The Daily Mail dubbed this “a swipe” at her former costar Sarah Jessica Parker, though Cattrall doesn’t name check Parker—or any Sex and the City costars, for that matter—in the interview.

While there have been rumors of tension between Parker and Cattrall for years, things came to the surface last winter after Cattrall’s brother passed away. Parker shared her condolences on Cattrall’s Instagram, to which Cattrall replied, “Let me make this VERY clear. (If I haven’t already) You are not my family. You are not my friend. So I’m writing to tell you one last time to stop exploiting our tragedy in order to restore your ‘nice girl’ persona.”

Sarah Jessica Parker, Kristin Davis, Cynthia Nixon, and Kim Cattrall in 1999.Munawar Hosain/Fotos International/Getty Images

Kim Cattrall on Why She’ll ‘Never] in Another ‘Sex and the City’ Movie

If you’re one of those Sex and the City stans still holding out hope for a SATC 3 with the full cast…sorry, friend. Kim Cattrall has made it clear that she will never, ever participate in Sex and the City 3. Of course, Cattrall—who brought PR-exec-by-day, heartbreaker-by-night Samantha Jones to life—has long been outspoken about not wanting to return to the beloved franchise, but a recent interview with the Daily Mail is the most definitive she’s been yet.

When asked if she would appear in another SATC film, she told the publication, “Never. It’s a no from me.”

Kristin Davis, Sarah Jessica Parker, Cynthia Nixon, and Kim Cattrall on the set of Sex In The City: The Movie.James Devaney/WireImage

She then added, “You learn lessons in life, and my lesson is to do work with good people and try and make it fun.” The Daily Mail dubbed this “a swipe” at her former costar Sarah Jessica Parker, though Cattrall doesn’t name-check her former costar—or any Sex and the City costars, for that matter—in the interview.

While there have been rumors of tension between Parker and Cattrall for years, things came to the surface last winter after Cattrall’s brother passed away. Parker shared her condolences on Cattrall’s Instagram, to which Cattrall replied, “Let me make this VERY clear. (If I haven’t already) You are not my family. You are not my friend. So I’m writing to tell you one last time to stop exploiting our tragedy in order to restore your ‘nice girl’ persona.”

Sarah Jessica Parker, Kristin Davis, Cynthia Nixon, and Kim Cattrall in 1999.Munawar Hosain/Fotos International/Getty Images

Amazon Prime Day 2019: 13 Best Fashion Deals (Including Kate Spade!)

If you’re looking to add some pieces to your summer wardrobe (and maybe a couple for fall too) you’re probably too distracted with Nordstrom’s Anniversary Sale to even give Amazon Prime Day a chance. We get it. But in recent years Amazon has added a lot of department store worthy brands to it’s roster. The only difference is Prime membership gives you free shipping and Prime Day gives you extra discounts. What we’re saying is, don’t sleep on this year’s Prime Day deals that’ll last for two full days—throughout June 16—for this first time ever.

Unfortunately (or fortunately, depends on who you ask) Amazon basically carries every single product known to man and trying to find the best fashion pieces that you actually want to wear is no easy feat by any means. So we’ve gone ahead and done the dirty work by narrowing down the hundreds of Amazon Prime fashion deals to the thirteen that we’re actually pretty excited about.

From Kate Spade sunglasses we’ll keep forever to comfortable Sam Edelman heels that won’t give you blisters to a floral dress you can definitely wear to a wedding, here are the best fashion deals Amazon Prime Day 2019 has to offer. We guarantee no one will even know they’re from Amazon.

Amazon Prime Day 2019: The 11 Best Luxury Beauty Deals & Products We Found

For anyone with a serious beauty obsession, Amazon Prime Day is basically a holiday—albeit one your office colleagues might not understand you phoning in for (which is why we have work from home days, right?). It’s one of the biggest sales of the year from the online retailer. Consider it the halfway-to-Black-Friday sale, and this year with Amazon Prime Day’s sales, you’re definitely not going to want to wait all the way until November to score some luxe beauty deals.

There’s plenty of luxury beauty selling on the website, so now’s the time to stock up on your staples or try a pricier moisturizer you’ve always wanted to try but might not have taken the plunge for yet. And if you need further help justifying any of your purchases, there are plenty of products where a drop or a spritz will do you just fine—meaning these products will last you months.

The only downside is that there are so many items on sale, narrowing it down to what’s actually going to wind up in your cart can be close to a full-time job. Luckily, that job is ours: read on for 11 of the best luxury beauty products from Amazon Prime Day, from the best eyeliner we’ve ever tried to Olaplex’s hair-saving treatment. You won’t even have to wait that long to try your spoils—with Amazon Prime, most products should be at your door in two days or less.

Amazon Prime Day 2019: The 6 Best Selling Lelo Sex Toys You Need Are On Sale

Amazon has some of the best rated sex toys on the internet which means that Amazon Prime day has some of the sexiest deals out there. As luck would have it, Swedish brand Lelo—known for making some of the most luxe and powerful sex toys on the market—is offering up to 50% off it’s best selling vibrators and toys this year. Basically the deal makes Amazon Prime Day 2019 better than Christmas and Black Friday combined.

If you don’t know where to start, we’d recommend Lelo’s Sona Cruise, currently on sale for $56. (According to one of our writers, is the best vibrator ever.) If you want something more discreet, there’s a lipstick shaped compact that brings whole new meaning to the word travel companion. And if you’re looking for something to bring home to your partner, there’s the Lelo Tiani 24k which is made with actual gold.

With so many of these sex toys coming in at way less than $100 with the Prime Day discount, we wouldn’t blame you if you wanted to get a couple. Twice the pleasure for half the price? Yes, please. Shop all the best Lelo sex toys on sale this Amazon Prime Day below.

Amazon Prime Day 2019: The 10 Best Skin Care Deals Perfect for Summer

We’re more than halfway to Black Friday, which is the official start of holiday shopping season, but you’d be forgiving for forgetting that the phrase “Christmas in July” was coined before Amazon Prime Day became a thing. For beauty product obsessives, it’s one of the best days of the year: A ton of incredible skin care products are marked down with huge discounts, often more than 50 percent off the normal purchase price. It’s a perfect time to fill in the gaps of your skin care routine, totally overhaul it, or just treat yourself to a few sheet masks (truly, can you ever have too many on hand?).

There are a lot of great offers on sale, but you don’t need to take the time to go through them all—we’ve done that for you. You’ll find 10 of the best skin care products on sale for Amazon Prime Day below, whether you’re after a new sunscreen or a moisturizer that will keep your skin hydrated for the coming months. With the kind of discounts available on Amazon Prime Day, it’s time to move these picks from your wishlist to your cart—just be sure to get them before the deals sell out (we have a feeling these gems will go fast).