From Toasty Melt to Peach Cobbler, the food-inspired hair color names keep on coming. The next trend being served up? Mushroom Blond hair, which according to Pinterest, is quickly outpacing other popular shades like Cold Brew hair and Toasted Coconut, with searches on the site for it up by 308 percent. While it sounds a little boring (mushrooms are delicious, but aren’t exactly the most exciting to look at), the final result is anything but.

The shade mirrors the multitone, ashy look of mushrooms, and isn’t really blond in the traditional sense. Mushroom blond is an in-between color—not quite blond, not quite brunette, making it the perfect transitional shade. “It’s right in between light brown and dark blond, like and ashier version of brond,” says Stephanie Brown, master colorist at New York City’s IGK Salon Soho. Because it doesn’t really fall into either blond or brunette, it’s a great shade for blonds looking to dip their toes into the dark side, or for brunettes wanting to go a little lighter.

“I love the idea of using mushrooms to describe the tone of the hair color,” says Joel Warren, celebrity colorist and founder of The Salon Project. “They have so many different tones of beige and gray that are hard to describe. These tones evolved from the gray and silver trend to a slightly more natural look. The combinations with highlights and low lights gives a beautiful modern look.”

While your instinct may be to go warmer with your hair for the summer, that’s the perfect reason not to: Doing something on the cooler side is a more unexpected look than summery baby blond or sandy brunette. According to Brown, it’s also super low-maintenance, making it a great choice for summer. Because it’s a more grown-out look, it needs to be touched up only every three to six months (even up to a year) depending on the length of your hair.

To get the color, Brown recommends asking your colorist for a light brown or dark blond subtle ombré, with a variation of both light brown and dark blond pieces. It’s important to ask for something ashy, or else you’ll be left with a more traditional brond. And as always, bringing in photos as reference always helps.

As soon as we met Luke on this season of The Bachelorette, my spidey sense for jerks went on high alert. I’m sure the show isn’t giving us the full picture of him as a person—but there’s something going on there. At the very least, he’s taking up a lot of time—mine, Hannah’s, and Bachelor Nation’s. Imagine how many hours could have been devoted to Mike’s infectious smile or Tyler’s dance moves. Instead, we have to spend episode after episode listening to Luke claim he’s doing his best while revealing his worst. It’s exhausting.

This Bachelorette fan put it best: “Ladies if he: confesses his love after five minutes of talking to you, lies about what he really says, is a manipulator, says everyone he’s ever met loves him, is jealous of other guys, threatens to leave, he’s not yours, he’s luke p & needs to be sent home.”

I see so many red flags for Luke, in fact, that I wanted to break each one down, episode by episode.

Episode One

It all started when Luke talks about how many hookups he had in college before God told him (while he was in the shower) to chill out. His exact words: “When I was in college a lot of the girls around me thought [I was a good-looking guy], and I definitely took advantage of that.”

Let that sink in: He tells us, seconds into meeting him, that he “took advantage” of how women perceived him.

My complaint is not that Luke once had an active sex life or has since found a new path—it’s that it feels like he’s gloating about his past sexual history and then shames Hannah for her choices. (But we’ll get to that.)

And then, during the first cocktail party, he shows another questionable side to himself. After Hannah finds out that one of the contestants had a girlfriend when he joined the show, she tells the remaining guys she needs a minute alone. However, Luke immediately follows her to ask how she’s doing. I think he means well—checking on someone who is sad is a good thing—but she had communicated clearly what she wanted and he ignored her. That’s a pattern we’ll see often with Luke.

Episode Two

During a “Mr. Right” pageant, Luke tells Hannah, “I’m starting to fall in love with you” after knowing her all of five minutes. Maybe he’s feeling excited about their new relationship—but I think love is a strong word. And he says this during the pageant’s talent portion. So Luke’s talent is making grand statements in front of a live audience, I guess.

Episode Three

During a group date, Luke demands more and more of Hannah’s time. It escalates to the point where she has to ask him to back off. “I need him to slow his roll,” she explains to the audience. “Luke P. stole the show again, but in a negative way.” Later that night, she asks him to be more respectful of everyone’s time—and when he starts to interrupt her mid-sentence she says, “No, let me talk.” (Another red flag I see: Luke also interrupts Hannah a lot.)

“You don’t respect that I have other relationships here…and that bothers me,” she continues. After their conversation, Luke P. vents to the other guys that Hannah talked so much he didn’t get a chance to explain himself. In short, Hannah communicated clearly what she needs, and he can’t—or won’t—listen to her.

Serena Williams is one of the most decorated tennis players in the world. She’s won 23 Grand Slam singles titles, 14 doubles titles with her sister, Venus, four Olympic gold medals…the list could go on and on. She’s also an outspoken advocate for equal pay, a successful businesswoman, a mom, a wife, and a trusted friend.

But one honor has eluded her until now: the cover of the Wheaties box, a.k.a. the “breakfast of champions.” It seems unfathomable that it’s taken this long to bestow said honor on one of the greatest athletes in tennis—or any sport, for that matter—but that’s finally been rectified. Williams made the announcement today, June 25 on her Instagram. “In 2001, Wheaties paid homage to a true champion and an icon by putting her on the cover of a Wheaties Box. Althea Gibson was the FIRST Black Woman tennis player to be on the box,” she wrote. “Today, I am honored to be the second.”

The cereal brand dedicated their entire grid to the announcement simply stating, “She’s a champion.” On Twitter, the brand wrote, “She’s an athlete. She’s a fashion designer. She’s a philanthropist. She’s a mother. @serenawilliams is a Champion. #ShesAChampion.” The tradition of putting athletes on the cover of the cereal box started back in 1934 with baseball star Lou Gehrig and over the years has included Jesse Owens (the first black man on the box), Michael Jordan (who has appeared a record 18 times), Mary Lou Retton, Lindsay Vonn, and Michael Phelps.

Commenters expressed their excitement—as well as their disbelief that this hasn’t happened already. “Long over due, congratulations! ! And there needs to be a third, fourth and fifth……plus,” one user wrote. “I can’t believe it took Wheaties this long to put your image on the box. Regardless, it’s great,” another fan commented.

Twitter users were thrilled by the news too, offering congratulations to Williams. “I’m going to buy a box but never going to open it,” one fan tweeted. Another called her “an inspiration in every aspect of your life!”

No comment yet from Williams’ husband, Alexis Ohainian, or daughter, Olympia, on their Instagram accounts—but we’re sure they’re enormously proud.

Next up for Williams is Wimbledon which starts next week. Hopefully her friend, Meghan Markle will come out to cheer her on again this year.

Lizzo’s in the middle of a banner year when it comes to her career. Her songs “Juice” and “Truth Hurts” have quickly become not only songs of summer but anthems of female empowerment and positivity. Her new album, Cuz I Love You, reached number one on iTunes. And she brings so much energy and talent on stage performing that even Rihanna recently gave her a standing ovation.

And through all of these career highlights, Lizzo has been open with fans about every aspect of her life—including her mental health. “I’m depressed and there’s no one I can talk to because there’s nothing anyone can do about it. Life hurts,” she wrote in a recent Instagram post.

“I self-love so hard because everything feels like rejection… it feel like the whole world be ghostin me sometimes,” she continued in the caption. “Sad af today. But this too shall pass. S/O all the messages of love. Thank you.”

That is some powerfully honest vulnerability from one of music’s biggest stars. Messages like that are a reminder that nobody’s life is exactly how it seems on the outside, especially on social media. Fans—both famous and non-famous alike—responded with their own messages of support.

“I hear you- depression is real. Struggle with it all my life. It does pass although while in it, it seems it never will. You are so loved. I love you Lizzo ♥️♥️♥️ @lizzobeeating,” designer Marc Jacobs wrote. “U drag me up everyday … fr . Take your time u carrying a lot of us. We love you ❤️🙏🏾,” SZA added.

Many commenters thanked Lizzo for being so open. “Openness ends the stigma–thank you. You are not alone, sometimes life feels so hard. But you brighten it for all of us,” one wrote. “I’m recovering from cancer and chemo, and your music, especially dancing to it, lifts me up. You are important and doing so much good. I hope you feel much better soon. 💗”

The response on Twitter was just as supportive:

The singer responded with a video in which she delved even further into her own relationship with her mental health and self care. “I know that something incredible is about to happen and something incredible has already happened, and I know that I’m just in between that incredible moment…” she said in a tearful follow-up video. “It’s humbling and I’m grateful that I’m able to feel these emotions, because I know that because of the sadness, I’m gonna be able to feel joy.”

In the caption, she reiterated what a positive experience speaking out has been for her while also asking her followers what triggers their sadness and how they handle it. “I learned in the last 24hrs that being emotionally honest can save your life,” she said. “Reaching out may be hard but as soon as I did it, I was immediately covered in love.”

Blistering? What’s so blistering about obscuring the truth?

But perhaps the most disappointing coverage (or lack thereof) came from the major network Sunday shows. As HuffPost put it, “ABC, CBS, CNN, Fox and NBC―the networks that make up the ‘big five’ of Sunday morning talk shows―boasted major political players in their lineups,” with Vice President Mike Pence and Senator Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) both on air for interviews. Not a single one of them was asked to address Carroll’s allegations. The Columbia Journalism Review also drew attention to a piece about Carroll’s allegations that ran on the Rupert Murdoch-owned New York Post, but has since been deleted. (Murdoch is a Trump supporter, and CNN reports that an old lieutenant of his who has returned to the paper as an adviser is the person who ordered the piece be removed.) When reporters in the newsroom were asked why the story was taken down, one told CNN, “Nobody needs to explain why. We already know.”

So, what happened to the story of E. Jean Carroll? Trump’s base seems, as expected, completely immune to accusations of even criminal behavior when it comes to Trump. But what happened to us, to the media?

Are we just too desensitized to these allegations? Are we so exhausted by the constant hum of sexism and corruption that is Trumpworld? Is it true, as Trump once himself claimed, that he could shoot someone in the middle of Fifth Avenue and not lose a single vote? Or is it as Ryan Cooper in The Week posited: It’s not about who Trump is. It’s about who we are. “One answer is probably the freshness bias built into the news business. Shocking new stories are more interesting and hence get more attention. So while a sexual assault allegation against a politician who appears scandal-free would be new and interesting, the 22nd one is simply another entry in a boring routine.”

Having now given it about 72 hours of nonstop thought, I do believe Carroll’s age was a factor. True, we have been trained not to listen to women, period. But older women have been rendered the most invisible. Their humiliations become background noise, and slights against them almost fail to register. When the Hill asked Trump about Carroll’s allegations, Trump responded, “I’ll say it with great respect: Number one, she’s not my type.” It’s not a surprise, but it is worth a mention: The president here has chosen imply that Carroll isn’t attractive enough to rape. Not that rape is itself a crime.

The media’s (lack of) attention to E. Jean Carroll is at best a cautionary tale of what not to do with a rape allegation and at worse a terrifying indication of where we are as a country. As feminists have stressed since Trump entered the race for president, he is a symptom, not a cause. He didn’t have to pass laws to ensure that news outlets don’t cover a rape allegation against him. He could count on the norms that made his rise possible: The media, which powerful men more or less still control, proved the bigger point of Carroll’s piece. It’s not just one hideous man who’s the problem. It’s the list of them. It’s the system of them.

On Monday, RAINN, which operates the national sexual assault hotline, said in an email release that it saw a 53 percent increase in calls after the Carroll’s excerpt was published. If the media won’t amplify our voices, we’re just going to need to form a bigger chorus.

Molly Jong-Fast is the author of three novels. Follow her on Twitter @mollyjongfast.